Hiring a Gay Escort Top 10 Tips and Advice

August 22nd, 2011 Posted by All, Tips, Top 10 10 comments

Top 10 Tips to Hire a Male Escort – Guide for Clients


An escort is not just for Christmas an escort is for any time of the year come winter spring summer or fall there is always a sexy escort boy (for example Josh) to call. Haha.

An escort can be hired as a one off experiment for hours or longer of fun and companionship or an escort can be hired time and time again with the potential to build a long lasting mutually beneficial relationship.


Top 10 Tips for clients looking to hire a gay escort


1. Have a good idea of what you want. Define the perfect experience for you. The type of escort you want to meet and what they look like. How much time you want to spend with them. What you want to do in this time sexual and/or non sexual. Do you want a one off meet or are you looking for a boy you can build a longer lasting business relationship with? Once you have a clear idea of what you want…


2. Look for the gay escort and do your homework. You can search around the escort listings for your ideal escort boy. Run some searches on his name to be sure he can deliver what you want to gain from the experience. Now check his rates and location if displayed and find as many answers to your questions as possible to speed up the process and to be sure not to come across as a time waster. A client who knows at least the basic stuff will get much further on the phone than the last 6 that called earlier and asked the escort what they look like or if they are based in London or Manchester?!


3. Make the call. So you asked yourself questions to be sure of what you want. You did your research on him and from what you found on line it looks like he can satisfy your desires. Now make the call, ask questions to verify he can fulfill what you have in mind you should know he is the escort you want before making the call but it is important to verify this and ask about specific things you have in mind.


4. Be forthcoming with information. Escorts will have dozens of calls a day and half of them result in time wasted on the phone speaking with guys who haven’t checked the most basic details and seem to just fancy a chat. The more detailed you are with the escort about what you want, where you are located, how they can reach you, the time and length of the meeting etc… the more likely the escort will take you seriously and schedule the meeting and not just say yes then save your name as TimeWaster_258.


5. So you have the appointment scheduled you are making your way. Confirm, confirm always confirm! This is so important every escort will experience bookings made that never turn up. If you call when you start your journey to the escort or if you call to confirm the booking at the time the escort needs to start their journey to you. You will save any potential mix up and the fun can begin without delays.


6. Clean and calm. Relax yourself if you feel nervous let a friend know what you are doing, if that is not possible temporarily store enough details about the escort somewhere safe and private so that you feel more comfortable. Clean because bad hygiene may blow all your plans for many of the services you wanted out of the water. No matter how professional the escort if a client is not clean there will likely be far more restrictions in the session.


7. Be friendly and respectful. These are two qualities that professional escorts will appreciate and be looking out for if any question of meeting again. Remember the escort is being hired to provide a service but is human and most humans respond to friendliness with friendliness and disrespect with disrespect. Perhaps offer the escort a drink or if in their home just be respectful and your friendly self and reap the rewards of an escort who likes you rather than an insulted escort who can’t wait to finish the job and get away.


8. The fee first or after? The usual is to give money up front. Legally it is the safest for both option in most countries. It is preferable to pay on arrival in hand or in envelope so there is no concern in the escorts mind. Most escorts will ask sometimes and other times they will be happy to leave it until after letting their instinct guide them. But the preference will almost certainly be for the fee to be paid first and out of the way.


9. Fun time. If you asked the escort when booking the appointment to take control saying that is what you want then allow the escort to do this but be sure to speak up if something is not what you had in mind. The escort wants you to enjoy so that you will be a repeat customer so the better you instruct the escort the more fun you have. Good quality escorts will be quick to adapt and learn exactly what you enjoy.


10. After the booking say your fair well, perhaps book another slot in advance if you enjoy or when you get home or the escort leaves as long as you were happy and want to meet the escort again maybe send a quick message or write a review for the escort. This will virtually guarantee there will be space for you next time you want to meet. Or if that doesn’t apply then just say nice to meet you good bye and have a think if you got what you want from the meeting.


** And the secret tip exclusive to this list guys is the biggest time saver and best tip you will ever hear for hiring a gay escort. Here it goes:

11. Book me by calling… 0798 304 7871 and voila you are now fully equipped with the basic essentials of hiring a male escort


Josh Brandon xXx



James4645253 says:

Great advice Josh. Mutual respect is paramount. We all have our wants and needs and you share your beautiful body with those who desire your services. Cleanliness too ensures a comfortable and fun time. Love and resect. James x

Josh Brandon says:

Absolutely we’re all gaining one way or another and respect both sides makes for a much more pleasant experience. Cleanliness is at the definitely top of the list!
Thanks for sharing you thoughts James xx

joninleeds says:

I once paid upfront for 2hrs then after an hour the guy made an excuse to go out to his car to get something. He never came back.. So now, unless they ask, I pay afterwards.

Josh Brandon says:

I can understand why you prefer to pay after the time having had an experience like that! There’s always two sides, escorts would prefer money up front to get it out the way and feel comfortable. Clients might prefer to pay after so they feel more comfortable.
The issue is if a client refuses to pay afterwards, the escort would have provided a service with no compensation or payment. Legally in the UK escorts have every right to report that services were provided without payment and the client would be breaking the law.
Most escorts would not do that.
I think it has to be individual in some cases, if there’s trust and you know about the escort then you can probably pay upfront, if it’s someone with one picture on a dodgy website you wouldn’t want to pay until after.

male escort london says:

hello new to the industry would love some advice how you started out?

Josh Brandon says:

Hi send me a private email with specific questions

Thomas Hubbard says:

Hello, Josh

I am located in an area where it seems escorting has either not been populated or it is not practiced (El Paso, Texas & Juárez, México). There is no agency, app or website that offer gay escort services where I live. I am trying to start off becoming a gay escort, but I am not having much luck with information. I’ve considered listing myself on Grindr, Craigslist and other online sites. But, being an escort on (i.e. Grindr, Craigslist) is not permitted. I am having to find clever ways to advertise myself without directly selling escort services. Since I saw you are a professional and successful in your line of work, I would really appreciate some of your insight.


John878 says:

Personally, I would only consider an escort who offered in-calls. Dismissing any who do not straight away. For the escort, they are on home ground, a bonus psychologically and the punter has the advantage of knowing that the escort is not going run off with the money and leave you – sat in their home. The worst that can happen is that the escort asks you to leave. In all seriousness the fact that an escort offers in-calls is surely a reflection of their professionalism. Even if its an out-call which is actually booked, the fact that in-call was offered makes the difference. I know its unfair on those who want to get started but do not have a home which is appropriate but it has to be a good indicator of professionalism of the guy, not only that they can offer in-calls but that they are willing to take that risk.

Josh Brandon says:

Good points, I think dismissing all guys because they haven’t yet got themselves set up in a home might mean some good service orientated guys won’t get booked and will find it harder to set themselves in a catch-22 but yes I do agree, when I first started it took me 6 months for my tenancy to expire and I knew I had to get my own place no longer shared to be really serious about making it a career.

pranab mahata says:

I like that advice its very cool

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